Daily Angel Oracle Card, from the Psychic Oracle For The Heart Oracle Card deck, by John Holland: Blossom
Blossom ~ Key Words: “Awaken, transform, stretch, possibilities, direction, growth.”
“Matters of the heart are much like flowers. In the bud stage, the relationship is in a state of potential. It requires loving care and attention to help it grow, develop, and bloom. The people involved in the relationship must be willing to trust and open themselves to each other. With the proper amount of nurturing, the relationship will blossom and bring beauty to the lives of those involved. It is time for you to nurture the potential of your relationships. New life and love are waiting for you. You have only to reach out and take hold. Seize the energies of renewal that surround you now and allow yourself to blossom like a beautiful flower. Awaken to the possibilities regarding desires of the heart.
A blossom follows the sun because its warmth and light nurture the flower and infuse it with energy. The sun even provides some of the nutrients needed by the blossom. What is the sun in your own life? What nurtures you and helps you thrive? Do your relationships provide what you need If not, is may be time to transform your life and grow in a new direction.
You are in a period of growth regarding affairs of the heart. Stretch yourself and your ideas of what you believe is possible – and know, in fact, that all things are possible if you will only follow your sun.
I awaken to the beauty of relationships that nurture me.”*
– John Holland
Sometimes we enter into a relationship on “our best behaviour,” hiding who we really are. This could be due partially out of the enthusiasm for the newness of this person and our exaggerated feelings for them, and partially to smooth over any “bumps” in our personalities that we wish to bury deep within us. Those aspects of our personality we strive to hide are in fact only aspects of ourselves that we refuse to accept unconditionally. They don’t go away, they just temporarily disappear in the heat of the new relationship. As the honeymoon period phases out, we often find ourselves coming back together again, fragment by fragment. To the person we are in a relationship with, we are “changing” and they may not be at all comfortable with this. We don’t see this as “changing” as we are merely coming back to ourselves, you can only hide for so long.
What if, this time, we decided to be in the relationship completely authentic; even if it did make us feel a little vulnerable and exposed. Would it not serve us better in the long run? Yes, there is no guarantee that this person will accept you if you don’t change a few things… yet are you not better off remaining true to yourself rather than compromising and paying for it later? Same goes for your partner, are you giving them the opportunity to be unconditionally loved for who they are without striving to change them first to suit your needs? Are they really the one for you if you can’t accept them for their true selves? This must be an equal chance for both of you; allow the winds of Heaven dance between you. Honour and celebrate your individuality before seeing the two of you as one.
Blossom. Unfold the petals of your unique beauty. No one is worth compromising your Soul for. Be true to yourself; you are perfect the way you are. If they don’t see your light; they are not for you. Give them your heart while following your heart to pursue your dreams and desires. Offer the same freedom and respect to them; for this faith is true love.
There is love for you here. So much love. Can you feel it? Trust your intuition and embrace your whole self before you enter in to a new relationship or completely reinvent an existing one. It’s time. Your Soul will sing for this freedom and acceptance. This is unconditional love. You deserve love; not compromise.
Look for love doing what you love to do; this is the key. Start with joy. Persevere with acceptance and finish with unconditional love; both for yourself and for your love partner; even if you have been with them ” forever” give them the gift of complete acceptance.
I AM worthy of Love. I AM loved. I accept myself completely and deserve unconditional love. I give and receive unconditional love.