Daily Angel Oracle Card: The Fates, from the Wisdom Of The Oracle, by Colette Baron-Reid
Essential Meanings: “Fate; Karma; Acceptance that there are things that you cannot change and knowing what those things are.”
The Oracle’s Message: “The serenity Prayer sums up the meaning of this card: “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” There are things in life you will never have control over. The conditions brought on by the evolution of the collective, by nature, and by your past experiences may be fated, preordained by Spirit for a greater purpose you cannot understand in this lifetime. It may not be in your cards to understand why certain event occurred, but you can accept the mystery and work with what those events and your current circumstances have to teach you. This is the wisdom contained in the Serenity Prayer.”
Relationship Message: “Other people are who they are. You can’t change them. The challenge is to accept them as they are and not try to make them otherwise to suit you. This is a time to look at how you attempt to mold people to fit your view of how they should be so you can remain in the relationship and avoid discomfort. What if who they are, and whatever is happening between you and them in this situation, is perfect from the perspective of Spirit? Now is the time to accept what you cannot change, even if it means that you honor yourself, Spirit, and the other person by moving on. Love unconditionally – for each of us is on our own journey, and we cannot direct that of another. Be aware that this relationship is indeed fated, and you are meant to evolve into a better version of yourself as a result of it.
Prosperity Message: “Your experiences concerning prosperity and abundance are beyond your personal control right now. You are being invited to accept “what is” unreservedly. This could be a temporary situation, seemingly thrust upon you by outside forces, but there is an underlying purpose you can’t see that has been determined by the Fates. It could be a situation you are unprepared for, and you may not understand how it will benefit you in the moment. Do not fight the situation. Ride it out and see where it leads. Surrender to it, and the serenity you need to make good choices from here on out will be given to you. You will indeed flourish.
Protection Message: “It is difficult to understand why painful things happen to good people. Fate is a mystery, after all. Yet what we do with our circumstances, the way in which we respond to life’s challenges, is how we rise up to greet our destiny. Now is one of those times to be aware of your powerlessness to change certain situations and surrender to acceptance. Hang in there. Life will only get better. Act as if you believe that, for the only thing you can control right now is your attitude. When you align with the Fates, being mindful of what you can and cannot change, serenity will come to you.”*
~ Colette Baron-Reid
We can spend so much energy trying to make things the way we would like them. Maybe we consider ourselves control freaks, maybe we just like to have things “our way” or maybe we just feel that we are seeing the potential that resides within someone else… and alas, if we could only get them to live up to that great potential, the world would be such a wonderful place. But unfortunately, we are not always in control and once we admit this to ourselves, we can stop struggling, stop swimming upstream and decide.
Decide? Yes, decide whether to allow this person or situation to be as it is and continue to be a part of our lives, or decide to move on. We can only control our own actions, our own reactions, our own reality. We can’t take responsibility for the whole world and every person in it… we can only design our own.
So take a closer look at the struggle… or, better yet, back it up a little and gain some perspective! What needs to change in order to create harmony, peace, joy and love? Is it your perception? Your own attitude? Or is it a matter of separating from all this? Only you can know what is right; however, you may ask the Fates… the Universe to give you a clear sign.
Should I stay or should I go now?
What does your heart say?