Daily Angel Oracle Card: Stamera ~ Forgiveness, from the Angel Blessings Oracle Card deck, by Kimberly Marooney
Stamera ~ Forgiveness:
“Stamera, Beautiful Stamera… come into my life my beloved and make me whole.
Fill me with your forgiveness complete, washing away all remnants of my intolerance for my own imperfections.
Stamera, blessed one hold me in your arms of love… You are my friend and companion, Stamera. You are my bliss.”
“Forgive yourself in order for healing to be complete. It is not possible to go back and change the past, but you can change how you feel about it. Forgiveness has a rhythm all its own as you progress through the process of release and healing. If you force forgiveness, you have not yet learned the lesson of acceptance. We have been taught to blame our feelings rather than our experience for unpleasantness. No matter how far away you push feelings, they are yours. At some point, they will come back to you.
Unpleasant feelings are your salvation, telling you to notice and inspiring you to take action! Often expressing the way you really feel in a caring way can transform an experience. If the other person is unwilling to understand, your feelings may be guiding you to leave a situation that is not right for you. This can be difficult when other options are not apparent. Call Stamera with all the desire of your heart and ask for strength, clear vision and courage.
When the behavior of another hurts you, this is a message from your Eternal Self exposing hidden feelings of guilt, shame, and self-hatred. If you had no such feelings, the other person’s actions would leave you undisturbed. The first step is to admit how you really feel.
Your body holds the feeling memory of traumatic events, just as your mind records the images of events. The cells that hold these feelings are like boxes. You have to open them and feel what is inside to release the experience. Until you have the courage and desire to do this, the trapped emotional essence will recreate the pattern by magnetically attracting new people and new circumstances with a similar essence. This may seem cruel, but it is actually a gift from God to draw your attention to everything that separates you from love, as these behavior patterns do. Forgive and you will be set free. Welcome new situations as guidance and ask Stamera to help you clearly see and understand these options.
Occasionally, a deep level of healing and forgiveness is instantaneous. More often, it takes time. Trust your Guardian Angel and Eternal Self to lead you on the path to wholeness as quickly as you are able to progress. This is not a competition; neither are you perfect. You are human, learning to be divine. Each time you expect yourself to be perfect, and then judge yourself harshly when you are not, you are replaying another pattern that exposes a lack of self-love.
When forgiveness is complete, you will feel serene, kind, happy and loved. Your life will change to reflect your healing, ceasing the endless repetition, of the same old patterns, and freeing you to pursue your Divine Plan. More and more, you will realize that you are in Stamera’s tender embrace. Even though you still live in the world of suffering and pain, your perception of it will have changed. You will no longer be overwhelmed by your own anguish. Instead, you will be filled with compassion and a desire to help when you feel the pain of others.”*
~ By Kimberly Marooney
Synchronicity! Yesterday we were told that things are changing, we are releasing old relationships that no longer serve us, and we are doing the work to attract our new Soul family to us. Today we are going deeper into the act of forgiveness, as this is the bridge to transforming our social interactions. We must find it within ourselves to forgive and move forward. We must learn to let go of the past: the pain, the trauma, the rawness of the emotions. When we can finally make peace through forgiveness, we can close the chapter and start new.
If your first reaction to the idea of forgiveness is ‘no way’ then you have more work to do than you may realize! If you are feeling like the victim at someone else’s hand, then you must find your own power and take it back. Only then are you truly ready to forgive and move forward. No one controls you but you. You must take full responsibility for your reaction to others, your frustration, your anger, your pain is yours to heal. Let them go and turn inward. Heal yourself.
You will know that you have truly forgiven and released when you are no longer triggered by this person or the memories associated with them. When you can see yourself and your role in the relationship with compassion. When you can acknowledge the lesson you can release the pattern. You will be able to see each person as human, and also the Divine spark within them. You will be able to feel the connection to them without pain or anger, and see it as the connection to All That Is.
Then you will experience harmony. Peace. Then you can truly breathe.
When you reach this stage, you find your freedom, your sovereignty. Then you can open up to something new. Fearlessly. Passionately.