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Time To Go

Published March 20, 2017 by Dee ~ Archangel Oracle

Time To Go, from the Wisdom Of The Oracle, by Colette Baron-Reid, artwork by Jena DellaGrottaglia

Daily Angel Oracle Card: Time To Go, from the Wisdom Of The Oracle, by Colette Baron-Reid, artwork by Jena DellaGrottaglia

Time To Go: “Endings; completion; walking away from something because there is nothing else to learn or experience”

The Oracle’s Message: “You are at the end of one journey and have not yet begun the next. This is the moment to bless your experience thus far. Take stock of what you have learned. It is time to move on to new experiences and a new way of being. There is nothing left for you to do, be, or experience in your present circumstances. Take the risk and move on even if you need to be in transition for a time. Your destiny is calling you.”

Relationship Message: “It is over, or at the very least, the form this relationship has taken is no longer of service to you or the other person. This is a time of letting go, of knowing that the journey has come to its conclusion. That does not mean anything is lost. Although this card could speak to a breakup, drifting apart, or the end of a soul contract, it is more about release than destruction. Remember the saying, ‘If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it is yours. If not, it never was.’ Endings are always a sign of new beginnings. If you want something deeper, walk away.”

Prosperity Message: “This message is clear: the path you have been on with your work, creative projects and business alliances have come to an end. You will not find the success you desire by continuing with what is now in front of you. This is an auspicious sign, because there is no choice that will benefit you other than risking stepping into the unknown. It is time to walk toward something new. This card also pertains to the more neutral concept of completion. You have finished your tasks and can rest assured that this ending will open up a powerful new avenue of opportunity – even better than any you can imagine. You have done all you can’ now trust that Spirit keeps the plan moving forward. Fortune requires you to conclude this chapter of your life. And remember than when you close one door, another opens.”

Protection Message: “Even if it appears that you’ve reached the end of the line and all is lost, it isn’t. You are in a situation that will resurface again and again later, so consider this a break rather than an ending. Destiny is in charge here. You lose nothing and gain everything when you surrender to that fact. Your soul knows that your Destiny is unfolding with perfect timing and synchronicity. Your small self has doubts, but that is natural, as it doesn’t have the map of your destiny- the Soul does! Spirit loves you. Trust that.”*

~ By Colette Baron-Reid

You knew exactly what was coming when you read the title. Ya, that. You know exactly what must happen in order for you to move forward. No, it’s not comfortable, but it is high time now isn’t it? What’s holding you back this time?

No more excuses. No more worries, doubts or fears. Enough is enough. Just get out there, take a great big deep breath and LEAP. Jump. Trust.

Have faith. You are correct. Don’t put it off any longer.

Your new life awaits you.

There are some bumps along the way, I’m not going to lie to you.

But then? After the dust settles and everything falls into place?

It will be awesome. Really awesome.

You got this.

Namaste

Dee

~Archangel Oracle

* Wisdom Of The Oracle, by Colette Baron-Reid, artwork by Jena DellaGrottaglia

Fork In The Road

Published March 30, 2016 by Dee ~ Archangel Oracle
Fork In The Road, from the Wisdom Of The Oracle card deck, by Colette Baron-Reid

Fork In The Road, from the Wisdom Of The Oracle card deck, by Colette Baron-Reid

Daily Angel Oracle Card: Fork In The Road, from the Wisdom Of The Oracle card deck, by Colette Baron-Reid

Fork In The Road ~ Essential Meanings: “Time to make a decision; considering the consequences as you prepare to act; owning up to your obligation to make a necessary choice.”

The Oracle’s Message: “Every choice has a consequence. You have arrived at a fork in the road and are being asked to come to a decision. Will you further your dreams by choosing left? Or by choosing right? Will you take the road less traveled or the one well worn by others who have come before you? This is your choice, and yours alone, to make. Circumstances and other people will not make it for you. Be present, and do not avoid this junction, for it is an important crossroads. Take heart, as no matter which path you choose, you will have a rich and meaningful experience.”

Relationship Message: “You have reached a moment of truth in the evolution of your relationship. Which will you choose: to open up to the possibility or love, or to remain isolated; to go deeper and commit to mutual passion, or to walk away? This is a time to take responsibility for your truest desire and to follow it. Be honest with yourself about what you are willing to do, invest, and give. Then choose. You cannot make a wrong choice. If you move forward with a relationship, know that it will be based in truth and authenticity. You will have made a conscious decision rather than simply hanging on because you do not want to be alone – or ending things because you are afraid of the intensity of a genuine connection. All roads lead to the lessons you must learn in your relationships. regardless of the decision you make, it will place you on the path to a truer experience of the heart.”

Prosperity Message: “You have come as far as you can on this part of your journey, and now you are faced with a choice. Inherent in this choice is the need for change, for evolution, and for a bettering of your circumstances. Narrow it down to just a single question: Who do I need to become, and what do I need to believe, in order to live a life of prosperity? Answer honestly and from the heart. Then the decision about which way to go will be effortless. Know that abundance is all around you. Choose to see it, and it will be easier to settle on a direction, for the way will be made clear by your intuition, which knows how to steer you towards your well being.”

Protection Message: “Indecision is extremely frustrating and will lead to anxiety, loss, and confusion. At this juncture, you can’t remain in place without losing your way altogether. Avoid the tendency to let others choose for you, which amounts to a subtle refusal to take responsibility. Do not give your power away, not even to this oracle. By not making a choice, for which you must be accountable. If that choice leads to undesirable circumstances, take heart; Spirit never tires of giving you second chances. You can always start again once you have learned this valuable lesson.”*

~ By Colette Baron-Reid

This is a very clear message that a decision has to be made; we can only sit on the fence for so long. Which way to go? What is your heart telling you? What is your Soul telling you? This is not a time for ego to take over, so bypass the fears, doubts and anxiety around making a change, knowing that your heart will not lead you astray.

The answers you seek are within you; look no farther. No one can give you the advice you seek, in fact, it will only confuse things. Take some time in silent contemplation and let the answers come. Only ask your angels and guides for direction. Then ask your Higher Self for the extra strength, courage, and wisdom to follow through.

Namaste

Dee

~Archangel Oracle

*Wisdom Of The Oracle card deck, by Colette Baron-Reid

Angel Card ~ Walk Away (and a little story about walking away)

Published July 31, 2013 by Dee ~ Archangel Oracle

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Daily Angel Card ~ Walk Away

Angel Card Walk Away: “Leave the unhealthy situation, and enjoy the new doors that open as a result!”

It is safe for you to make your desired change. You have been wanting to do so, but have hesitated out of fears about what the future holds and how people will react to your decision. This card validates that it really is time to leave- you will be happier and healthier as a result. Ask the fairies to smooth the path of hyour transition and lend the necessary support. The sooner you make this change, the sooner you will experience the bliss that your future has in store for you!

Additional meanings for this card: 

“Be assertive and tell someone your true feelings. Make a commitment to yourself, and vow to keep it. Start planning now so that you are able to leave, such as calling a support group, updating your resume, or squirreling some money away. Go for healthy and  vigorous walks. “*

This card reminds me of an old saying “Who’s driving your Bus?” basically meaning that if you are on the wrong path, you will never get on the right one until you take the wheel of your own life and start steering it in the direction that your heart desires to go. Not always the easiest thing to do if you have a job that you rely on to support your family, kids, a mortgage, bills up to your eyeballs and family pressures to stay your course.

So how do you get up the guts to just up and walk away? Well, let me tell you a funny story about how I did just exactly that several years ago.

I had worked as a hairdresser for about 10 years in 3 different salons in the same city, so I had a great clientele built up. Great in that I knew approximately how much money I would make in a given month, and knew my schedule about 6-8 weeks in advance due to people booking ahead. Business was good. I was my own boss, chair renting at a salon with 5 of my good friends.

The only issue I had was a lack of freedom and spontaneity. I couldn’t just up and leave for a week, or a month to Mexico or Tahiti if I felt like it, I would have to book it like a year in advance. So I started feeling a little trapped. I would book a week or a weekend off weeks in advance and started planning little dive trips as I had discovered SCUBA diving and absolutely loved it. Everyone who knows me knows that I am actually a mermaid!

So, first I took a week and went to Port Hardy, which was listed in Jaques Cousteau’s top 10 dive sites around the world. I went on a live aboard dive boat and dove 3-4 times a day for the whole week. LOVED it! Fantastic diving, fast currents, loads of life. Then I went to Hawaii for 10 days with a friend, Oahu. It was great but 10 days was just not enough. So I booked in advance to have 5 weeks off and went to Belize. It was amazing, and I had a real taste of freedom. I started to wonder what would happen if I was on a permanent vacation.

Then one day I was in the salon, no trips booked, feeling stuck and trapped and bored and frustrated and totally overwhelmed. I was running behind and had 5 people in the salon, just for me. As I asked one of my least favourite clients to lean back in the sink so I could remove her colour, she made one of her typical snide remarks to me about how she preferred the guy around the corner blowdrying her hair, as when he did it, her hair lasted a full week before she had to wash it (gag). I literally snapped. Something in my mind screamed loud and clear…. “JUST LEAVE. You don’t need this anymore. There is something way better out there for you. Get out. WALK AWAY.”

So I did! Best thing I EVER did! I told my client I was done, I was leaving and I was not finishing her hair. I told the shop owner that I quit, effective immediately. I walked out the door, got in my car, went home and bought a plane ticket.

That ticket eventually lead me to travel for a full 5 years! I went from Kelowna, BC, to Vancouver, to Puerto Vallarta and Guadalajara Mexico, to Costa Rica. Then back to Mexico, but the Mayan Rivera this time Playa Del Carmen, then to Florida, Bahamas, Bermuda, Honduras, California, Micronesia, Guam, and Hawaii. I worked in Iberostar Resort in Playa Del Carmen and Cozumel in Mexico, on the live aboard dive boat the Aquacat in the Bahamas, and for Fantasea Bermuda. I traveled to Honduras, Micronesia and Guam with an Argentinian film crew as one of their underwater videographers for a TV show called Diving Passport that aired on ESPN2. I learned from world renown photographer and videographer Frasier Nivens in Key Largo, Florida.

Then  finally, engaged to be married and 6 months pregnant, I came back to Canada to nest and immigrate my Portuguese husband that I met in Bermuda the second season I was there. Now, I am back to hairdressing, but on my terms, from home, with the freedom to pick my kids up from school or camp, go to a figure skating competition, go camping or take the afternoon off. Now that’s more like it!

Any regrets? Well, maybe that I didn’t leave my job even sooner and see more of the world before getting tied down with family responsibility, ha ha. But seriously? Not at all, I changed my whole life the day I walked out that door, and I would do it again in a heartbeat.

What do you need to walk away from? And what’s holding you back?

Namaste

*Magical Messages From the Fairies Oracle Cards, Doreen Virtue, Ph.D. Doreen Virtue

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